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Why is it so hard (again)?

A friend and former prof, Jack, used to say that the evil one rubs your nose in your sin and drives you to discouragement and despair.  The Holy Spirit shows you your sin and drives you back to the cross for forgiveness.

When I wrote yesterday about how hard it is (or seems to be) to do partnership development, I trust you knew that was only a small tip of the iceberg.Tip of the Iceberg --- Image by © Ralph A. Clevenger/CORBIS

Why is life so hard?  Primarily because we struggle against sin, the flesh and the evil one.  The struggle is compounded by the fact that we can’t always distinguish which ‘one’ is working on us.

When our skirmish is against sin, we find ourselves face to face with that ‘law’ which works within us (Romans 7:23); that temptation when ‘fully grown brings forth death’ (James 1:15).  It is like running through a darkened hallway where you keep bumping into things, not knowing what they are, or what they might contain.

Those who went before us talked about ‘mortifying sin’ (see John Owens’ famous treatise, “The Mortification of Sin”).  Mortifying sin was the way people in those days talked about the need to deal with our heart (or our heart sins) in serious ways.

That sounds kind of rough, I know.  However, an Australian mate, Simon, made the comment over coffee today that he doesn’t often hear much talk about sin.  It’s more about the ‘help’ that Jesus can be to us.  Sin, in our lives, needs to be dealt with in serious ways in order for us to know more of the depth of the impact of the cross.

A Scottish pastor shared the following ideas as a way to practice ‘mortification’ of sin.  First, see sin for what it really is.  Self-deception keeps us from seeing a ‘struggle’ as idolatry.  Next, see sin for what it is in God’s presence.  “The masters of the spiritual life spoke of dragging our lusts to the cross (kick and scream, though they will), to a wrath-bearing Christ.”  Next, remember who you are.  You are no longer the ‘old’ man or ‘old’ woman, you are a new creation in Christ.   Finally, put sin to death.   “Refuse it, starve it, and reject it’.

None of this work can happen outside of the ‘great exchange’; outside of the Spirit of Christ at work in our hearts and giving us the grace to do the ‘hard work’.

Pride runs deep

How easy it is for us to forget that the work of Jesus Christ on our behalf is the reason why we are we part of the family of God.  Day by day, our works ‘shout out’ to others around us that we are part of the family because of all the ‘good’ that we do, because of the many hours of ministry in which we engage, and because we ‘gave up’ a better career to serve God cross culturally.

We’ve got it all wrong.  As one writer put: “It is painful to pride to discover that the Christian life is not rooted in what we can do, but in what we need done to us.”

proudPride.  It’s the belief that we can live and do ministry on our own.  Really.  We might not say that out loud.  We might use all the right spiritual phrases, but our pride will not let us go as far as to say: ‘we can do nothing apart from Him.”

It is the painful ‘tearing away’ from that self-centeredness in which we must engage each day.  However, even to do that, we need the working of Christ’s Spirit in our hearts (Psalm 139:23-24).

Pride runs deep. It will not be overcome in a day’s effort.  It is a marathon work that calls us to daily repentance and faith.  It is a journey where we need others to help us move away from self-centeredness towards other-centeredness.

People watching

Have you ever caught yourself just ‘staring’ at people in a restaurant, on a flight, or at an open air market?  You know, engaging in ‘people watching’.  I can at times find myself looking at all the people around me and wondering how many of them know Christ.Crowded...

A sense of guilt can easily well up in our hearts as we think about the unfinished work of the Gospel and what we feel we ‘need’ to do.

Yes, our hearts need to be daily broken over the lost condition of those around us.  However, the ultimate work of the Gospel does not rest upon our efforts.  A friend used to say: “No one ever got saved by your testimony.”  His point was that God may use your testimony to bring another to Himself, but it is He that opens the hearts of men and women to Himself.

However, what if our initial response of brokenness gave way to a further response.  What if we chose to train another to pray along with us, to join with us in engaging lost people in spiritual conversation?  What if we saw the ‘mission’ God has given us to be a team effort rather than just an individual effort?

Last night, (let’s call him ‘P’) P was my waiter.  Each time, I come through this city, I usually run into P at this restaurant. P knows that I am a Christian. I met P through C, who is a local believer here.  P also knows M who is a worker in this city.  I haven’t necessarily ‘trained’ C and M, but my spiritual horizons expand when I realize that God is using many people to bring Christ’s hope to the one of those  among the lost.

I just wonder about the fruit that might come from training up others into this missional work of God, rather than ‘carrying’ it by ourselves.

Unpacking the idea of ‘over-questioning’

If you didn’t see it, Carolyn commented on yesterday’s blog post by writing: “David, I enjoyed this thought. Can you “unpack” or expand on this idea: “First, at times ‘over-questioning’ is a smokescreen for our criticism, not our constructive, critical help. We simply want to prove that we are right about the theological or missiological standing behind our comments, rather than help the brother or sister move a new idea forward.unpackinggraphic

So here goes.  ‘Over-questioning’ is when we ask lots of questions where the primary focus is to ‘take apart others’ ideas’.  Our objective is not first to come alongside and assist the other to ‘improve’ the idea by our questions.

If we push back on the someone’s implied criticisms through their questions, we often get a response such as: “I’m just asking questions. I think there are some missiological and theological issues at stake here.

All those questions are just a ‘smokescreen’ as to our real intent in the discussion.  There is nothing wrong with asking lots of questions.  However, the Gospel searches out the motivation behind our questioning; seeking to separate out self-centeredness from other-centeredness.

Other-centeredness causes us to have a different view of others and their ideas.  Our questions become the means by which we can ‘develop others’.  And sometimes, ‘development’ means we just need to let people try and see what the Lord might do through their ideas.

I wonder what the Lord, and the disciples, thought when Peter asked to step out of that boat.

Learning the Gospel is a daily experience

It’s the end of another week. As I look back over this past week, there are a number of questions I can use to evaluate or assess the fruitfulness of my week.daily-learning

One that doesn’t often come to mind, but should, is: how did the Gospel become more precious to me this week?  To put it another way, how did the Gospel help me see more of the depth of my sin and cause me to hold on more strongly to the honour and blessing God bestows on me as His child?

When you or I are in one of our ‘snits’ – simply defined as: “a fit of irritation; a sulk” – the last thing we are probably thinking about is unfathomable love of Christ for us.  What we are thinking about is how angry, frustrated or irritated we are with a teammate, an event or the seemingly bad things coming our way.

Yet, those very moments are the moments when God is most at work to show us our sin and push us back to Him where we would find all that we need.  Much of our work as cross cultural workers happens at a level which is invisible to the eye.  God is concerned above all with our heart, and our ‘stance’, probably more than He is with ‘our ministry’ (just read the book of Jonah again).

We talk a lot about the Gospel in World Team.  However, ‘talk’ is by no means the same thing as experience; nor the same thing as struggling with God to open our hearts to His Spirit’s searching work.

It is just hard sometimes to ‘believe’ that God truly loves us (1 John 3:1).  The truth is that He does, and we need the Spirit to drive that home to our hearts through experience, through His Word, through prayer, and through friends.

This was only one of many weeks to learn again of the unfathomable riches of Christ poured out to us even when we were in a snit.  I wonder how the Gospel will become more precious to me again next week?

Humility check

humility-copyLisa corrected a misstatement in my previous post.  I had written: “Up to this point, I have not found ‘humility’ as one of the assessment categories on an annual evaluation.”  However, there was such a category in our old Annual Ministry Review form.

This is what you would have found there:

Christian Character—a godly life which shows evidence of God’s work being conformed to the image of Christ as demonstrated by:

  1. a humble, teachable spirit
  Requires Improvement   Satisfactory   Exceptional
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The rub is that no one would have ever wanted to say that their humility factor was off the charts by checking the box, exceptional.

However, the point of that Annual Ministry Review exercise was to get ‘outside-in’ input from others on the ravages of pride in our lives.  Others help us have an accurate picture of where our trust is more in ourselves than in the Savior.  Most of us are self-unaware when it comes to how deep pride runs in our own hearts.  Jack Miller (Serge) used to say that at the root of every sin you would find pride and unbelief.

Humility, as a foundational principle for CPM, reminds us of how often ‘we’ get in the way of God’s missional work.

For a humility check, try asking several others: where do you see me relying more on myself than on Jesus?  Then be ready to take those responses back to Jesus, asking him to give you the grace to turn again from one’s pride and grab hold of His loving and forgiving hands.