Every June, a number of our teams around the world welcome interns who come to explore cross cultural ministry and serve alongside us. Several weeks with interns are a microcosm of the struggle we often have with ‘letting go’, that is, with releasing people into ministry.
Our tendency is to want to do everything for those interns. They’re interns, and so in our minds they do not really know what they need to do or how to do it. So, we often graciously step in to ‘guide them through’ each step of the internship.
Effective training includes content and opportunity for testing applications. In other words, we give people input and then “release” them to look for ways to apply what they have learned. The best applications are the ones discovered by the training participants themselves.
I remember one group of interns that helped me begin to learn what it means to ‘let go’, to release people to discover ministry application for themselves.
We had just spent an afternoon explaining the metro system here. We gave the interns several destinations to visit for themselves, figuring out the best way to get back and forth between these destination points and their apartments. We all left together and headed for the nearest metro station. As Rebecca and I stood on one side of the platform, we saw all of our interns on the other side. We were headed home. They were headed off to their first destination. They were on the wrong side of the platform! I was ready to yell over to them, when my wife simply encouraged me to let them discover their mistake themselves.
The lesson wasn’t over. A week later, we all met at a local church in Paris for meetings. I asked the interns what metro line they took to get to the church. The line they took was not the line I would have taken. I was just about to say that very thing when I realized they had nonetheless gotten to the church. Their route was a good as mine … maybe even better.
‘Letting go’ does not mean we diminish the quality of our training. It does mean we allow for more individual discovery rather than always making the discovery for others.
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