Most of us are activists at heart. That’s one of the ‘core skills’ of a cross cultural worker; whether plodding or charging ahead, the cross cultural worker will move forward. We’ve got that ‘checklist’ mindset where each part of the church planting task gets ‘checked off’ as we move forward to the next part.
Language learning? Nine months of intensive study in a language school and we can check that requirement off. Cultural learning? Digest two to books on Haitian culture plus a weekend stay with a Haitian family and we can check that requirement off. It’s just so straightforward.
Yet, something in that ‘process’ doesn’t rime with Paul’s confession: “Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me.” (2 Corinthians 12.9)
During my first few months of language school, one of our professors announced that he was going to share the ‘secret’ to staying long term France. All of us grabbed a piece of paper and a pen, ready to write down these words of wisdom. This was his ‘secret’: “Every day, when you get up, go into the bathroom, look at yourself in the mirror and say: “Thank you God that I am your beloved child. Help me to learn one more French word today.”” That was it. That was all he said. To say that most of us in the class were disappointed would be an understatement. However, he touched on one of the fundamental elements of the cross cultural journey. It’s more about humility than performance. It’s more about a growing dependency than about independence.
You cross the cultural bridge. You lay anchors to keep you from sliding back onto the bridge. And you recognize that each day of this journey will take you deeper into humility and dependency; something that goes against our nature and that we often resist.
All of us know that humility is not part of an online module in which can participate. However, we can certainly strive to put ourselves in contexts where God’s Spirit can continue His refining work, leading us to depend more and more on Him. Some suggested ‘contexts’:
- Learn a new word, a new expression today. Grab hold today of the right way to say something you’ve struggled to say correctly for a while.
- Say ‘thanks for your help’ when someone corrects another one of your grammar mistakes.
- Ask a neighbor to explain the meaning of a recent cultural event or particular cultural value.
- Read up on a local historical landmark and go visit it.
- Ask for help in doing a project at your apartment.
- Consistently describe yourself as a ‘lifelong’ learner
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Thoughts Along The Journey 