Words have a ‘power’ that we often underestimate. They can bring joy to a heart (Proverbs 12:25) or distress to one’s soul (Proverbs 15:1). They are capable of building a person up in the faith (Ephesians 4:29) or ‘devouring’ the good name of another (Galatians 5:15)
Words have a ‘power’ that we often underestimate.
The Bible is replete with verses “about how to speak and listen, how to use words and not abuse people.” Yet, in my day to day conversations I seemingly overlook and forget these truths. I can create conflict and mistrust, rather than a safe context for others. I can stifle, by my words, the growth of others.
Words have a ‘power’ that we often underestimate.
This is why gossip is so insidious. It appears harmless at first view: “Have you heard about what happened to John? I don’t think he would mind me sharing with you as we should really be praying for him right now.” Yet, information (sometimes false or distorted information) is shared which diminishes the other; that tears down instead of builds up; and that creates an opening for the evil one to further attack our consciences.
We all know it is wrong and hurtful. Why cannot we not stem its tide? Why are Christian agencies and churches some of its more fertile soil?
One main reason is because we love ourselves more than Christ. We love being the one with privileged information. The act of letting others in on that information, we think, builds us up in their eyes. It’s warped thinking.
One look back at Jesus would make us feel the pain of those words and would melt our hearts at the forgiveness Jesus extends to us over and over again (1 John 1:9).
One word from another might pull our eyes off of ourselves and put it back on the One who took our wrongs upon Himself. The simple question of: are you sure that is true? might awaken our hearts to turn towards our Redeemer.
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